Why I Meditate — And Why I Almost Never Call It Meditation
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Dr Ali Esmaeili · Plastic & Reconstructive Surgeon, Royal Free Hospital, London "Show up first. Improve later."
Early morning — before the house wakes
If I told most surgeons I meditate, they would look at me the way I look at fad diets. Sceptically. So I don't say that. I say I have a morning ritual. I say I have a stillness practice. I say I roll a coin — the same coin, every morning, for thirteen years.
Call it what you want. Neuroscience doesn't care what you call it.
What is actually happening? When you deliberately direct your attention to your breath, to a single repeated motion, to a sound, you are activating the default mode network in a controlled way, rather than letting it run unchecked. The default mode network is the part of the brain active during rest and self-referential thought. Unmanaged, it produces rumination, anxiety, and the mental noise most of us carry constantly.
Mindfulness practice — in any form — trains you to notice when the mind has drifted, and to return. That is the entire skill. Notice. Return.
A landmark Harvard study by Lazar et al. (2005) found that long-term meditators showed measurable increases in cortical thickness in regions associated with attention and interoception. A 2011 study by Holzel et al. found that just eight weeks of mindfulness practice produced structural changes in the amygdala — the brain's alarm system — reducing reactivity to stress.Eight weeks. Not years. Eight weeks of consistent, imperfect practice.
The coin
Every morning, I roll a coin across my knuckles. It is a sleight-of-hand technique — the same motion, repeated until the mind quietens and the hands know what to do without asking permission. It is not meditation in the traditional sense. It requires focus. It requires presence. And it is repeatable anywhere — before a theatre list, in a waiting room, on a night when sleep won't come. The habit is not the point. The return is the point. Permission to start imperfectly. There is a version of mindfulness that requires cushions, silence, and thirty minutes. That version is not for most of us — and it doesn't need to be. Five minutes. A cup of coffee before anyone else is awake. A walk without headphones. A coin. The mind will wander. It always does. That is not failure. That is the practice.
References
Lazar SW et al. NeuroReport, 2005; 16(17):1893–1897 · Holzel BK et al. Psychiatry Research: Neuroimaging, 2011; 191(1):36–43 · Goyal M et al. JAMA Internal Medicine, 2014; 174(3):357–368 · Khoury B et al. Clinical Psychology Review, 2013; 33(6):763–771
Dr Ali Esmaeili, Plastic & Reconstructive Surgeon · UCL · Royal Free NHS